May 9, 2010
Child Custody For Fathers – Tips To Help You Get Them Back
Child custody for fathers is a much more difficult road to travel than for females, but it is not as difficult as most men think. With the proper thought and preparation, it is is feasible to at a minimum win joint custody of your children. Don’t stop at joint custody, though. Shoot high for full custody and then only settle for joint custody if necessary. This article will provide you ideas to get you motivated to pursue custody of your kids.
Fathers are winning custody more often in divorce cases than in days past but the sad reality is that many judges are still using the old adage “Tender Years Doctrine,” which often gave custody to the mother. Even though this way of thinking is out of date and has been proven not to be a valid way to determine the placement of children, it is still used. The current philosophy is “The Best Interest of The Child,” which doesn’t automatically give custody to the mother.
For dads seeking custody of your kids you can win custody of your children if you are willing to fight. Many dads even today are discouraged by these out of date statistics and just assume that they don’t have a prayer. By not fighting, the courts fall back on the Mom. If you are willing to prove to the court that you can, want and are able to raise your kids, you can greatly increase your chances of winning custody of your children.
You can actually turn the reality of the courts favoring the mother in child custody settlements around to your advantage. As I said earlier in this article, many fathers assume that they don’t have a prayer at winning custody. The opposite is also true, most moms automatically assume that they will win full custody and don’t put alot of effort into their preparation. So by putting effort and thought into your custody preparation you can catch your ex off guard and appear to the judge to be the better choice for custody of your children. I strongly advise you to put up a fight, learn as much information as you can specifically regarding child custody for fathers and get a good attorney.
Picture yourself and your precious kids reading books in their bedroom in “your” house every night. Remember this picture in your mind whenever you get depressed. Just believe, that you can and will get custody of your children even if it is just shared custody (at least you would still have a say in major decisions regarding their welfare.)
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If you want to win custody of your children and be happy again, then please check out my website at http://www.custodycenter.org Get prepared and arm yourself with proven strategies that will significantly improve your chances of winning custody of the most important people on God’s green earth, Your Children. Write this motto down, “If you persist you will succeed.” I wish you and your children all the best, Travis Scott |
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